'The best is yet to come' HURTS before it shows up :-/ Lydia Lowery Busler Why does growth feel so bad when it starts out feeling so good? Here’s what a rough growth period looks like: We look for personal growth and it feels good. Then, we release surface energy and it feels fantastic! But then, all that pernicious stuck energy releases and it’s *overwhelming*. Stuck energy is a BIG DEAL. Even when we don’t know that as fact, we still feel the result. So at this point, we start to ponder and analyze. We label, blame, or question ourselves, our spouse, our doctor, the unorthodox method we’ve tried…. and that just makes us grumpy and defensive. We want to find a way out of the ick as soon as we can, so chances are, we quit. We blame what we think went wrong, and it feels pretty self-righteous to indignantly do something about it. Soon, we’ve nixed the growth and are frustrated and struggling. And it’s like a bulldozer rampaging around our body - we feel unwell and we’re emba
